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The Verdict - Part 2
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Season 6, Episode 22
The Verdict Part 2
Can expert witness testimony overcome decades-old missing records?
In Part 2 of this trial breakdown, Karen Koehler and Mo Hamoudi discuss the expert witnesses, courtroom strategy, and pivotal testimony that helped establish liability in a childhood sexual abuse case involving institutional failures and destroyed records. From former child welfare professionals to a trauma psychologist whose testimony stopped the courtroom cold, they explain how expert testimony helped the jury understand what happened, what should have happened, and the lasting impact of childhood trauma.
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Part Two And Witness Lineup
Karen KoehlerOkay, so this is part two of our uh trial that we just finished yesterday, and we're gonna now move on to our wonderful ex uh uh eyewitness experts, uh Jane Raymond and Barbara Stone.
Mo HamoudiSo both of them are former employees of the state, and they worked in the welfare system, they worked, you know, in dependency cases, they'd done a lot of work.
Karen KoehlerWell, Barbara for her entire career at one point she was a director.
Mo HamoudiYeah, so Barbara did licensing, and so part of the aspect of licensing was to get Barbara to talk about what did they actually do when they licensed, and um she was retiring and she did not want to work on a case, and uh I could not for the life of me get her to work on a case and I s and I was like, Can I pause
Winning Over A Reluctant Expert
Mo Hamoudihere just for a second?
Karen KoehlerYeah, so she says no, and I'm like, we gotta have her, we gotta have her, you gotta he's like, he's like, okay, let me let me work on this. And I just want to stop and pause here because this is our dynamic, right? We don't take no for an answer.
Mo HamoudiThat's right.
Karen KoehlerAnd we're gonna go throw ourselves against the wall, and but we're not gonna do it belligerently. We're like, okay, how can I do this? What's gonna work? And I'm like, this is terrible, but this is the truth. Should I tell the truth?
Mo HamoudiYeah, tell the truth.
Karen KoehlerI said, you gotta go tell her that you that you were also abused as a child.
Mo HamoudiYeah, I mean, I told her that I didn't tell her that to manipulate her at all. Well, I did not, because she was not manipulated.
Karen KoehlerShe was not manipulated, she was not manipulated.
Mo HamoudiShe was very clear.
Karen KoehlerWe want we we wanted her to understand that this came from a very good place.
Mo HamoudiWell, let me talk about the conversation I had with her.
Karen KoehlerIf you were noble, I I just want to say I was not noble, but you were noble.
Mo HamoudiWell, because she gets a lot of calls from a lot of lawyers asking for help, and she does not know who the lawyers are and what the nature of the case is. Right. And so what I explained to her was that look, this is not right. This guy was convicted in 1981 of abusing them, and we have no records because they destroyed the records, and we really need somebody to help us understand what you would have done back then. And I was and I and she was asking, you know, well, what's your involvement in the case? And part of it was like, yeah, there is a personal connection to the case because of what I experienced as a child. And I sent her a book of my poems that I, you know, wrote in in when I was in New York City.
Karen KoehlerYou can't stop laughing.
Mo HamoudiYou know, and uh and she loved the poem. She loved the poems because it was a great chap book that I'd written about life and growing up and about memories and about regrets and hope.
Karen KoehlerAnd Imagine this, Mo, how many cases she's worked on in her career where the child who was abused did not have your outcome. I would imagine you are in the top 1%. And that hearing from someone like you, which is why I wanted you to talk to her and tell her, must have given her a sense of hope.
Mo HamoudiYeah. You know, she she was not only hopeful, she was she said what she said was, I will, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna testify, but I will provide you with a declaration um and uh about my thoughts. And uh the declaration was incredibly helpful, but she didn't even charge us.
Karen KoehlerYou topped, you you touched her heart.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerAnd that was our secret weapon.
Mo HamoudiI yeah.
Karen KoehlerOur secret weapon, folks, if you want to know how to do it like Karen and Mo, is to touch the heart. Yeah. Because she was moved by Mo. She felt connected him for very for, I mean, that's her whole dedication of life is to helping people that were abused within the system. Yeah. And here is this child grown into a man, man child, who man child, a man child, who connects with her really on a very profound, intimate level. Yeah. And she was willing to do that with you on the cusp of leaving this whole practice area.
Mo HamoudiYeah. On the cusp of leaving it. And you could tell she was exhausted.
Karen KoehlerYeah.
Mo HamoudiJust a career that exhausted her. And the second person. Wait, wait, wait. Yeah.
Karen KoehlerSo so we just stick with Barbara. Yeah,
Barbara Stone Sets The Standard
Karen KoehlerBarbara, yeah. So so as we know from the last last issue, they tried to subpoena her, and we're like, sorry, Barbara. They're trying to do it, we want to call you instead. And she shows up in court on that big screen with her big glasses and just looking like you would want her to be your caseworker. And she comes in with you, and what happens?
Mo HamoudiShe just knocks it out of the park.
Karen KoehlerShe's in Zoom, by the way.
Mo HamoudiShe's on Zoom, she knocks it out of the park. She provides really compelling testimony about like these manuals that we are talking about.
Karen KoehlerAnd he starts it off by saying you've never seen a single document on this case.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerYou don't even really know the names of the people involved. You have not been hired by us to testify. You are here as a fact witness. That is compelling.
Mo HamoudiYeah. Yeah. She just she provided the groundwork for the standard of care of what was supposed to happen to license this guy.
Karen KoehlerHe didn't show a single exhibit.
Mo HamoudiI didn't show her a single exhibit.
Karen KoehlerAnd then tell him about the cross.
Mo HamoudiThe cross was start.
Karen KoehlerYou gotta do it. You gotta do it just like it happened. Um it better involve a lot of sarcasm.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerUh you let's see that let's wait. This is a build-up moment.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerRemember, they think I'm the actor and he's not the actor. He went to acting school and has actually been an actor.
Mo HamoudiYeah. Okay, let's do it. You're a character. Um you actually refused to work for the plaintiffs, didn't you? Yeah. Because I'm retiring. I'm done with these cases.
Karen KoehlerI was like, that was the cross.
Mo HamoudiI was like, why? Yeah, you know, the the point there was like there was something about the case that made her not want to work on the case, but then she showed up anyways and told what we needed her to say. It was so dumb. It was so low.
Karen KoehlerThere was a lot of low moments.
Mike ToddIsn't that I mean? Because I I feel like they were going like, see, you thought it was so bad that you wouldn't even take it. And she just was like, she's like, no, uh, you're wrong.
Karen KoehlerWe actually like these lawyers because they were they were not assholes, oops, can I say assholes? They were not jerks. No. They were they were polite. However, their cross-exam on uh on a whole was absolutely atrocious.
Mo HamoudiYeah, that's what it sounds like. Yeah, and and on lawyer. It wasn't even that.
Karen KoehlerIt was embarrassing.
Mo HamoudiThere was not even that many questions really asked. And the jury asked some thoughtful questions about the times, about like what really was going on, and we got what we needed from her. You know, we got important aspects of what we needed from her. And the second thing was was then the the the second person was Okay, so I want to shortcut it on the second person.
Karen KoehlerYeah. So it's Jane Reiman. Same vintage, same vintage. About three years younger, she's not
Drawing Out Jane Raymond’s Opinions
Karen Koehlergonna be around forever, folks. Incredibly impressive, got everything from us, was paid by us. Took Mo took her agonizingly, which I do not want him to recount here, through the manual G, which as we know turns out to be a very important part. But I do want to forward fast you to um the end. What was the when you were freaking giving the 15-minute long questions and pounding the um pounding the podium like you were a gospel um orator in church.
Mo HamoudiI know.
Karen KoehlerYou gotta tell them.
Mo HamoudiOkay, okay. So, like uh the rule just very quickly, and the rules require you to provide notice of the opinions the expert's gonna provide. Jane provided three real opinions, two tops, which she provided, three a little bit vague. And um I just was like, I'm gonna go for the gold, and I'm gonna draw out another 10 to 15 opinions from her and see if they object. And so the way I set it up was that Karen had done the direct of uh the foster parent's wife, the husband's wife, the day before, and she laid some really good testimony about their total failure after the kids were uh, if they found out that the abuse had happened, they went to the home and a social worker told the spouse, Oh, I suspected something was going on, and what they didn't do afterwards. So I'd taken notes about that testimony and thought about like what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna lay those facts in front of Jane Raymond and then ask her opinions about it. And so the way I did it, I was like, um, so the juries heard testimony, and then I went through literally the entire testimony of the woman, and then I started to ask questions. What's your opinion there? Did they breach the standard of care there? Did they breach the standard? And they were not objecting. I heard them whispering about it.
Karen KoehlerHe was yelling too, and over the top of the podium, um, he was just like so aggressive and rage-filled, and the jury was like, Yeah, yeah, let him do it. You know, they're just watching this. Like it's this is this this trial was high theater the whole way through it.
Mo HamoudiBut it was the permission to get angry about what happened.
Karen KoehlerThey should have objected. That was the most, first of all, she's his witness. I I wrote down to Darcy and Sinnett to her, I said, he's leading her through the nose, and they are not objecting. She's like, Yes, yes, you know. But she then started getting into it, and when they went up there to cross-examine her, she was not having any of it and went at them.
Mo HamoudiNo, and she she I thought she did exceptionally well. She would answer their question and say, But I gotta explain to you.
Karen KoehlerOh my god. Over and over there.
Mo HamoudiIt was really good.
Mike ToddSo I mean that's that's the nothing. Well, and that's what she I mean, that's that's where it really worked for you guys because all the with the lack of evidence that you had, all you had were these policies. And then you've got these people who were there who were enacting the policies and who knew them back and forth. And that's the evidence that the that the jury was looking at. Yeah, you know.
Karen KoehlerI kept seeing them looking at the state had this person, Arneson, who showed up every single day, and the and she was the first witness, and it wasn't great. Like, Modus let her talk a lot, and he was saying, you want and she'd say, Well, can I add something else? And he'd say yes. Like, I would never allow that. He was so nice and kind. So we started off like in a hole, in my opinion. And that turned out to be great because we only had the only place we had to go was up. And these two people just basically leveled the state. So the state had shown, you know, testified. And then she also, they were, we had also two more people we were gonna call from the state. She kept saying, Well, someone else is gonna talk about this, but she answered all the questions, uh, thinking she was doing such a great job. She volunteered all the stuff, and then these two experts come in and just say, Yeah, none of that's correct. And then we decide we're not gonna call those other two witnesses anyway, and
Building Momentum And Forcing Silence
Karen Koehlerthe state doesn't end up calling anybody. We can get to that point.
Mo HamoudiBut but but those experts and the liability case was but can I say did I predict that they would not put on a defense? You did. Okay.
Karen KoehlerI didn't.
Mo HamoudiOkay, I predicted that they wouldn't put on any more witnesses. And so when I went with their first, we led with their first witness. Well, by the way, I predicted they wouldn't put on a defense. She selected the order of witnesses. I didn't.
Karen KoehlerYeah.
Mo HamoudiShe said, let's call their witness first. I wanted it. And so I I let her explain everything, okay, because I knew that these two were gonna come in and annihilate her testimony.
Karen KoehlerLet her say whatever she wanted. And and and here's the deal. You can once you lose your momentum, you cannot get it. So if you start off with your best witnesses and then the state goes and you lose your momentum, you're not gonna get it back. Yeah. Not normally. Now it's possible, but it's different when you start off at the bottom and then you you're you're building a momentum that we never lost our momentum after that. And we never really had it to lose after the first what one sets the stage. She was horrible for us and horrible for them in the end.
Mo HamoudiBecause she was gonna stay there the whole day. But I think that the the gamble paid off because I did not think It was not a gamble, it was a calculated decision. It was a calculated decision, but I call it there was a show. What I what I predicted was like after these two testify, there is no way they're gonna put her back up.
Karen KoehlerWhich they weren't.
Mo HamoudiOkay. And I said, I know the other two. There is no way that they could match credentials to these two. So for them to put the other two up would be a huge gamble for them.
Karen KoehlerAnd none of them had been there back then.
Mo HamoudiNo, no, no. So that's that that was the strategic judgment.
Karen KoehlerAll right, let's cover one more witness and then we'll do one more episode on closing. Okay. Let's let's uh let's cover the psych.
Mo HamoudiYou you handled that.
Karen KoehlerSo the psych
The Damages Expert And A Heinous Question
Karen Koehlerwas retained by Mo, and he'd worked with them when he was a public defender. This the psych had really never worked on any civil abuse cases like this. And he was known known for doing uh evaluations primarily of sex offenders.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerSo uh Mo handled him for the first year. I never even talked to him, and then I was gonna do damages, I took over. Um, I I talked to him like twice before trial. Uh, we did trial, and oh my god, he was one of the best ever. Um, he was so good. He mumbled a little bit, but it just made you want to hear more. He was like your trusted uncle.
Mo HamoudiYes.
Karen KoehlerThe way he talked. He was so clear, he was so he was so good. He brought it so much to life. He was so authoritative, um, without being um, you know, book bookheaded because he's he's he's not that kind of a person. And he's humble, he's a humble guy who lives on Squim. Squim.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerLives on Squim. So Nathan gets up to cross him. This was actually the worst, single worst cross. I don't know that he ever, he could not recover after his cross of this guy because he and I just lay it down there. Um, you know, one of the issues is he um recognizes institutional betrayal, which is uh basically a trauma and um exacerbator. It's not in the DSM 4. So Nathan comes up there with six pages of typewritten cross and starts going through it. I am not gonna bore you with the boring part because it was terrible. This expert who looked like I said, your laid-back Pacific Northwest uncle from Squim, who was probably wearing dockers and you know, tennis shoes, like we were always wearing, not only handled everything, he could give them the sights. He told them the names of the professors, and I mean, he just did it, he never looked at his whole entire file the whole time he testified. He was great, he just knew the case. So Nathan's getting ready for his big, huge, giant, you know, moment with the guy. Do you remember what he said? I mean, I'll never forget it.
Mo HamoudiThe distinction between just go ahead and do it.
Karen KoehlerNo, you're gonna do it, you gotta do it with the acting abilities that we all know that what you have.
Mo HamoudiYeah.
Karen KoehlerAnd you're gonna do it with Nathan's tone, and then you're gonna do it with Dr. Manley's answer. Can you do that?
Mo HamoudiI don't know if I remember exactly his answer.
Karen KoehlerBut you remember pretty much. I remember the quite okay, do the qu you have to you have to be in character and do that.
Mo HamoudiYeah. Um Dr. Manley. Um you admit that um Mr. McFarland was subjected only to fellatio, whereas Mr. Hockhalter was sodomized, and that fallacious is not as bad as sodomy.
Karen KoehlerPretty much. He didn't use those actual words, but he he said those.
Mike ToddThat is what he said.
Karen KoehlerHe asked them basically to rate the level of Yeah, which one's worse, essentially.
Mike ToddAnd that that if you were abused in one way.
Karen KoehlerYou could hear a pin drop in the courtroom. We were horrified. I was like, did he just ask that question? And you know that the jury's gonna get an instruction saying for ch child sex abuse, sexual intercourse is any orifice, any penetration, no matter how slight, that is considered sexual intercourse. So he asks that question. Now I would like you to be Dr. Manley who's so quiet and sedate and professional and uncly in a squim way.
Mo HamoudiHe says basically, he looks at him and he says, sexual trauma of any kind. Of childhood sex childhood sexual trauma of any kind is uh damaging.
Karen KoehlerNo, he said the most heinous thing that can happen to a human being.
Mo HamoudiYeah. Yeah.
Karen KoehlerAnd he said it, I'll never he said heinous, and he was like, he wasn't out of his chair, but he was so upset.
Mo HamoudiHe was upset.
Karen KoehlerThis like, are you kidding me, you fool? He didn't say those words, but he was like, if if he if his emotions could speak, he would have said, I'll I'll do this part. Are you kidding me, you dumb fool? How could you ask me such a stupid question in a court of law before all these jurors? What the heck is wrong with you? I'll answer your question. Childhood sexual abuse is what the most heinous thing that can happen to a human being.
Mo HamoudiIt's terrible. It was a terrible question. It was a horrible question.
Mike ToddYeah, do you think that they pretty much lost it right there?
Mo HamoudiI think they lost, they lost on the on the question of like damages. Like they weren't like like I don't know, I don't I don't know what the hell he was thinking, honestly. I have no idea what the hell he was thinking. He wasn't thinking.
Karen KoehlerIt was the low moment for him. It was terrible. And in fact, I you know, I diary after every day, and I wrote down, and I do believe this is true, as soon as he said it, I think he wished he hadn't.
Mike ToddOh, I'm sure.
Karen KoehlerI think when he's articulated because so now they everything was written down. They were not gonna ask anything that they hadn't asked in a deposition, it was all written down. And anytime they went off script, there was a problem. They should have stepped to their stuck to their boring scripts. He went off script on that one and asked a question, and you could just tell, like, oh, I shouldn't have asked that question. And he just got leveled with that question, the with the answer. Leveled. And of course, then I get up and he goes, he's grabbing me. He's like, Don't get up, just let it don't say another word.
Mo HamoudiYeah, yeah.
Karen KoehlerDon't say another word. And I did. I got up there and I said because he was insinuating that that uh this stuff wasn't in the DSM, therefore it wasn't. And I said, hasn't child sex abuse and the effects of it been known since the beginning of time? And he just went off. Went off and just it was it made it even more it was like a double whammy to their throat.
Mike ToddYeah, yeah, yeah. Well, that's been my thing about this whole thing. I I I didn't have to hear it from an expert. I know that that I mean, anybody that's had anything happen to them when they're child, don't don't even make it sex abuse. I remember my horrible things from my childhood to this day.
Karen KoehlerBecause it's built in your body, it never goes away. It's inside of you, it's part of you, part of your DNA. Yeah.
Mike ToddAnd I mean, you may be able to talk about it, you may be
Trauma Triggers And Final Reflections
Mike Toddable to limit it somehow, but it's always gonna be there. It's always gonna affect you. And this kind of stuff, yeah, and to have the gall to try to pull the Bill Clinton on it is the most absurd thing I've ever heard.
Karen KoehlerIt was so bad, Mike. There's two other things, you know, on this topic of it's in your body. The both of them described that to this day, if they s hear the sound of a creaking stair, because that guy would go down that stair. Yeah. Yep. The creaking stair, it's just they are back there.
Mike ToddYeah.
Karen KoehlerInstantly back there.
Mike ToddBack there. Well, and you said the you said the one where he was in the church and you saw the guy put the armor around the child young child and thought that guy must be a molester. I mean, that's that's the kind of stuff that we're talking about.
Karen KoehlerThat's that it fundamentally changes.
Mike ToddIt changes you in a deep way. Yeah. It's horrible.
Karen KoehlerHorrible. Okay, let's end it there.
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